Víkendové surfovanie

Pozdravy z bratislavských Kramárov, kde včera v noci Kubkovi operovali pruh. Keď sa spamätáme, možno bude na danú tému aj článok “Ja nie som vystrašená, ja som naštvatá.” (to nebola metafora, to bol citát)

teraz len toto:

bleeding time

one woman mentions that women are literally still bleeding, long after they’re expected to “bounce back” and reclaim their old lives and be totally self-sufficient. Our bodies haven’t finished healing, and we’re supposed to look and act as though nothing even happened here, it’s all good. It’s all just the same as it was.

narodeniny alebo ako som bola v dulom nebi

Šťastná Zuzka úplne žiarila, otecko sa s láskou díval na ňu a na syna, držal Zuzku za ruku a bozkával ju. Bábätko sa tichučko a sústredene dívalo Zuzke do očí. Eva pokojne odišla, nebála sa, že by im dieťa nebodaj spadlo, nechcela ho brať preč. Ani ja som nemala potrebu tam zostávať. Tieto chvíle patrili im. Ich novej rodine. Zobrala som si fľašu vody, mobil a šla sa prejsť von s tým, že sa vrátim, keby ma potrebovali, alebo až potom, keď pôjdeme domov.

Sedela som na lavičke a premýšľala o tom, čo som zažila. A  dokola som si kládla otázku: „Prečo to u nás nejde? Prečo?“

Toto by bolo výborné, keby to tak v tých knihách aj bolo:

Game of Thrones

Víkendové surfovanie

the gift of siblings

They’re less tailored fits than friends are. But in a family that’s succeeded at closeness, they’re more natural, better harbors. As Colt observed of his siblings, and it’s true of mine as well, they aren’t people he would have likely made an effort to know or spend time with if he’d met them at school, say, or at work. And yet a reunion with them thrills him more than a reunion with friends, who don’t make him feel that he’s “a part of a larger quilt,” he said. His brothers do.

Star Wars vs Game of Thrones – nestáva sa mi to často, ale tu som sa reálne nahlas rehotala… ale aby to bolo vtipné, treba poznať dej oboch… a asi by som mala dať aj varovanie pre tých, ktorí nie sú úplne up-to-date: spoiler alert:

got_vs_sw

hororové príbehy v dvoch vetách – niektoré sú ozaj dobré

I begin tucking him into bed and he tells me, “Daddy check for monsters under my bed.” I look underneath for his amusement and see him, another him, under the bed, staring back at me quivering and whispering, “Daddy there’s somebody on my bed.”

how to talk to your daughter about her body

don’t talk to your daughter about her body, except to teach her how it works.
Don’t say anything if she’s lost weight. Don’t say anything if she’s gained weight.
If you think your daughter’s body looks amazing, don’t say that. Here are some things you can say instead:
“You look so healthy!” is a great one.
Or how about, “you’re looking so strong.”
“I can see how happy you are – you’re glowing.”
Better yet, compliment her on something that has nothing to do with her body.
Don’t comment on other women’s bodies either. Nope. Not a single comment, not a nice one or a mean one.

Encourage your daughter to run because it makes her feel less stressed. Encourage your daughter to climb mountains because there is nowhere better to explore your spirituality than the peak of the universe. Encourage your daughter to surf, or rock climb, or mountain bike because it scares her and that’s a good thing sometimes.

ešte pár fotiek z našej dovolenky: Legoland a Kodaň

práva detí (Katka, ďakujem)

toto je síce pár rokov staré (natrafila som na to, keď som hľadala niečo iné), ale keby namiesto dvojvetových hororových príbehov písali čo najdeprimujúcejšie jednovetové, tak by to bol jeden z finalistov:

Although there was no difference in the body mass index measurements between the three-year-old boys and girls, mothers reported that their daughters ate enough food, but their sons did not (p<.01), the researchers reported in the December issue of International Journal of Eating Disorders.

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